How Not to Mess Up Your Future Kids, and Other Tips.


One of the most interesting things I heard about recently happened to be learned while I was at Paleo F(x). I’m sure you’re stunned, right? While listening to the Express Yourself Panel discussion (all about genes vs. epigenetics) the idea that epigenetic changes that occur in our bodies now, can contribute to genetic changes in our children.

That’s mind blowing to me.

Not just have an effect on our children, which I have known about, but contribute to genetic changes! Yikes.

My first reaction was shock, then horror set it. ‘I’m already messing up the kid I don’t have yet’.

How do you not go to that place? How do you NOT freak out about the damage you may or may not be doing to future generations? I certainly did. In this day and age, there are so many ways to know how a certain variable affects us. Want to know if you tolerate caffeine? There’s a test for that. Want to know if you have the MTHFR mutation? There is a test for that. Want to know if you digest fats well? There is a test for that also. With all these answers about how our environment is affecting US, it’s understandable that we freak out about how those answers will affect our kids.

It’s therefore just as easy to freak out about our own lives. How we go digging for answers in every possible place, get every test done, want every result. But at what point is our pursuit of health making us more sick? Genetic testing, blood tests, tests for every organ in your body, do we ever stop? My point isn’t that they are useless. Or that the pursuit of health and answers isn’t worthy. All of these tests and paths will give plenty of helpful and useful information. But if we let ourselves fall down the rabbit hole of diagnosis, are stressing constantly and focusing on what is ‘wrong’, what is right about our bodies slips through the cracks. What is ‘wrong’ will always be in the forefront and getting the attention. What is ‘wrong’ may soon become who we think we are.  By forgetting to appreciate what is actually functioning ‘normally’, we miss an amazing opportunity. An opportunity to relish in what our bodies are capable of and what they are doing for us. I know that for many of us, it can feel like our bodies are hardly doing ANYTHING right. We often find ourselves saying (I do it as well) that our bodies are broken, failing or damaged. Yes, some parts may not be functioning at the most optimal level that we want, but according to it, it’s doing the best it can. So why not appreciate and honor that?

As I sat in my chair after the discussion was over, I thought more about it. I realized that I was getting a ‘bit’ ahead of myself, by worrying already about my future children and their health. Granted, that is a noble cause to fret about, but probably one that doesn’t have to plague my mind just yet. I’ll give that another year or two. Yes, it is accurate that what I do now, will affect my children To Be Determined later, but I don’t have to stress about it now. If I make choices that are aligned with what I need, and what is best for my body, then I (and my future offspring) can’t go wrong. And that is true for the me a few years down the road, when those future children are a little more immanent. There are absolutely things that I can and will be doing differently during that time, including eating a variety of good protein sources, vegetables and fruits, making sure my stress levels are low, and making sure I have put myself in the best place hormonally that I can. All of these things I am doing now anyway, so I should, and hope to be doing alright. But it’s nothing I can stress myself over.

And after all, the healthiest cultures in history had no idea about any of this information. They turned out ok.

 

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There are SO MANY things that can help us.

But the one I’ve seen move the needle the most?

Working on your mindset and stress management tools.

We can change our diet
Change how we move 
Change the products we’re using
Change the supplements we take..

But if we’re still in the high stress state that most of us are in.. all those will only go so far.

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I’ve seen myself and tons of clients through behavior change to help improve their MS + autoimmune disease symptoms.

There are SO MANY things that can help us.

But the one I’ve seen move the needle the most?

Working on your mindset and stress management tools.

We can change our diet
Change how we move
Change the products we’re using
Change the supplements we take..

But if we’re still in the high stress state that most of us are in.. all those will only go so far.

Stress is my biggest symptom trigger, and 99% of my clients feel the same.

My biggest course sale is coming Black Friday, included is my course Embodied Resilience, all about learning how to actually manage stress- so you’re not constantly battling MS flares too.

My email list is gonna get first dibs..
Comment LIST below and I’ll add you so you’re notified first!!
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We can do hard things y’all,
breathe in, breathe out,
all will be well.

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I think 90% of my clients have talked about already feeling the shift to Fall and Winter hardddd.

They are worried about seasonal depression coming back with a vengeance, feeling sad summer is gone and so many other things.

I know when so many feel the same way, you might too.
I know I feel this way too.

I’m working with them to put habits in place NOW that will support them through the winter months.

Here are 2 small shifts we talked about this week:

1. Get sunlight into your eyeballs as soon as you can in the morning.☀️☀️

Ideally this is outside, there will be many science bro’s out there telling you that anything else “doesn’t count” but I say that’s BS.
Yes, the sunlight will have a greater impact if you’re viewing outside, but even if you’re behind a window it will do something.

2. Move your body!! 💃🏃‍♀️

The change in seasons to colder weather makes it super easy to hibernate and move wayyy less than we were in the summer.
I know I’ve been guilty of that this week and it’s showing in my sleep.
But moving our bodies can be so helpful for regulating so many things in our bodies.
Ideally you’re moving in the morning, but again- any time of day will do. 

These are 2 small shifts that can make it easier for your body to transition to, and live with the Winter months.

Let’s crowdsource… what else helps you in winter?? 
I know there are many other things that can!!

I think 90% of my clients have talked about already feeling the shift to Fall and Winter hardddd.

They are worried about seasonal depression coming back with a vengeance, feeling sad summer is gone and so many other things.

I know when so many feel the same way, you might too.
I know I feel this way too.

I’m working with them to put habits in place NOW that will support them through the winter months.

Here are 2 small shifts we talked about this week:

1. Get sunlight into your eyeballs as soon as you can in the morning.☀️☀️

Ideally this is outside, there will be many science bro’s out there telling you that anything else “doesn’t count” but I say that’s BS.
Yes, the sunlight will have a greater impact if you’re viewing outside, but even if you’re behind a window it will do something.

2. Move your body!! 💃🏃‍♀️

The change in seasons to colder weather makes it super easy to hibernate and move wayyy less than we were in the summer.
I know I’ve been guilty of that this week and it’s showing in my sleep.
But moving our bodies can be so helpful for regulating so many things in our bodies.
Ideally you’re moving in the morning, but again- any time of day will do.

These are 2 small shifts that can make it easier for your body to transition to, and live with the Winter months.

Let’s crowdsource… what else helps you in winter??
I know there are many other things that can!!
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I think I’ve said this in every group I’ve run and with every client I meet with.

(A gross oversimplification disclaimer)
But this: 
people pleasing, being all or nothing, perfectionist (I could go on) 

Is (part of) why we got MS.

These patterns we play out each day are the hardest thing to change- and they also keep us with high stress, high MS symptoms and feeling like crap in our bodies.

Changing these patterns takes awareness, focus and support- all of which you get in Holistically Healing MS.

•If you want the ability to say NO when you’d usually just say yes.. (stop overriding yourself)
•If you want to be ok with putting your needs first (cause I know you’re not lol)
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I think I’ve said this in every group I’ve run and with every client I meet with.

(A gross oversimplification disclaimer)
But this:
people pleasing, being all or nothing, perfectionist (I could go on)

Is (part of) why we got MS.

These patterns we play out each day are the hardest thing to change- and they also keep us with high stress, high MS symptoms and feeling like crap in our bodies.

Changing these patterns takes awareness, focus and support- all of which you get in Holistically Healing MS.

•If you want the ability to say NO when you’d usually just say yes.. (stop overriding yourself)
•If you want to be ok with putting your needs first (cause I know you’re not lol)
•If you want to finally feel like you’re good enough and doing enough (cause you are)

Join us in HHMS. Along with lifestyle strategies, we go process the emotional burden all those patterns have- which helps to move through them.

Comment HHMS below and I’ll send you the link.
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At some point you have to start trusting the things you’re doing will help and stop jumping to a new thing each week.

Giving up gluten one week?
Then dairy the next?
Maybe jumping into an exercise class a week later?

At some point you gotta pick 1-3 things and stick with them long enough to give them time to make changes in your body!!

Not just a day or week either.

Yes change can happen fast, but usually not that fast. You need to stick with things for long enough to see if they’ll help.

Often you give up before it has a chance to shift anything.

If you’ve been bouncing from thing to thing, throwing random things at the wall and hoping they stick, hoping something will move the needle an inch so you feel even a little bit better.. 

My course Holistically Healing MS is for you.

This is the place to find what works for you, to decrease your MS symptoms.

Comment HHMS below and I’ll send you details.

At some point you have to start trusting the things you’re doing will help and stop jumping to a new thing each week.

Giving up gluten one week?
Then dairy the next?
Maybe jumping into an exercise class a week later?

At some point you gotta pick 1-3 things and stick with them long enough to give them time to make changes in your body!!

Not just a day or week either.

Yes change can happen fast, but usually not that fast. You need to stick with things for long enough to see if they’ll help.

Often you give up before it has a chance to shift anything.

If you’ve been bouncing from thing to thing, throwing random things at the wall and hoping they stick, hoping something will move the needle an inch so you feel even a little bit better..

My course Holistically Healing MS is for you.

This is the place to find what works for you, to decrease your MS symptoms.

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